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The Mindful Self-Compassion Workbook: A Proven Way to Accept Yourself, Build Inner Strength, and Thrive

Also known as The Mindful Self-Compassion Workbook, MSC Workbook, The Mindful Self-Compassion Workbook (2018)

Neff and Germer's step-by-step workbook version of the eight-week MSC program

At a glance

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Why it matters

Key facts

Authors
Kristin Neff and Christopher Germer1
Published
2018 (paperback 29 August 2018)1
Publisher
Guilford Press1
Pages
2061
ISBN
9781462526789 (paperback); 9781462535651 (hardcover)1
Audience
General readers; large-format workbook with 17 audio downloads1
Reach
More than 350,000 in print, according to the publisher1

What it argues

  1. Kinder to others than to yourself1

    Most people are kinder to others than to themselves; the book teaches a step-by-step way out of harsh self-judgement and impossible standards.

  2. Skills you can learn1

    Self-compassion is treated as a trainable skill, practised through formal meditations and informal practices done anytime.

Key ideas

  1. What it is and is not1

    Opening chapters define self-compassion, separate it from what it is not and review its benefits.

  2. Physiology of self-criticism1

    A chapter explains how self-criticism and self-compassion act on the body.

  3. Into daily life1

    Later chapters apply it to caregiving, shame, relationships, anger and forgiveness.

  4. Backdraft1

    When you first offer yourself kindness, old pain can flare up; a whole chapter is on this "backdraft".

  5. Embracing the good1

    Late chapters turn to savouring, self-appreciation and forgiveness, not only pain.

Examples from the book

  1. Self-Compassion Break1

    A short guided practice (about 5 to 12 minutes in the audio) to use in a difficult moment.

  2. Affectionate Breathing1

    A breathing meditation done with warmth rather than effortful focus.

  3. Compassionate Body Scan1

    Moving attention through the body with kindness, one of the longer recordings.

  4. Compassionate Friend1

    A guided imagery practice of meeting a compassionate friend.

  5. Working with Difficult Emotions1

    A meditation for meeting a hard feeling directly.

Connections

Sources

  1. The Mindful Self-Compassion Workbook (Guilford Press) (opens guilford.com)
  2. What is Self-Compassion? (self-compassion.org) (opens self-compassion.org)
  3. Kristin Neff (Wikipedia) (opens en.wikipedia.org)

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