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Love Sense: The Revolutionary New Science of Romantic Relationships

Also known as Love Sense, Love Sense (2013), Love Sense (Johnson, 2013)

Sue Johnson's popular account of the science of love as an attachment bond

At a glance

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Why it matters

Key facts

Author
Sue Johnson1
Published
31 December 2013 (on sale)1
Publisher
Little, Brown2
Pages
3521
ISBN
978-0-316-13376-02
Audience
General readers and couples3

What it argues

  1. Love makes sense3

    Clinical studies, experiments and therapy show love is understandable and repairable.

  2. An attachment bond1

    Romantic love is an attachment bond like that between mother and child; humans are meant to mate for life.

  3. Bowlby's lineage3

    Johnson credits her approach to John Bowlby's theories of infant attachment.

How it is organized

  1. Part one: the science3

    Chapters on the brain, including oxytocin, and on the body, linking attachment and sexuality.

  2. Part two: therapy in action3

    Cases of distressed couples learning to recognize attachment issues and repair the bond.

  3. Part three: love today3

    A love story with a happy ending, then love in the 21st century.

  4. Three styles2

    Partners are sorted as secure, anxious or avoidant, with hope that insecure partners can become stable.

Criticism and limits

  1. Thin in places2

    Publishers Weekly called it admirable but at times thin, rarely applying its data to common couple problems.

  2. Stilted dialogue2

    The same review found the patient dialogue too stilted to pass for real conversation.

  3. A promotional edge3

    Kirkus read it as a self-help book that also promotes Emotionally Focused Therapy, while calling it readable.

Connections

Sources

  1. Love Sense (Hachette Book Group) (opens hachettebookgroup.com)
  2. Love Sense review (Publishers Weekly) (opens publishersweekly.com)
  3. Love Sense review (Kirkus Reviews) (opens kirkusreviews.com)

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