Love Sense: The Revolutionary New Science of Romantic Relationships
Also known as Love Sense, Love Sense (2013), Love Sense (Johnson, 2013)
Sue Johnson's popular account of the science of love as an attachment bond
At a glance
What it argues
Love makes sense, An attachment bond, Bowlby's lineage
See all 3How it is organized
Part one: the science, Part two: therapy in action, Part three: love today …
See all 4Criticism and limits
Thin in places, Stilted dialogue, A promotional edge
See all 3Read next
Hold Me Tight, Attachment theory, Attachment Theory in Practice
See all 3Connections
Sue Johnson, Attachment theory and Emotionally focused couples therapy
See all 3
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- Sue Johnson's second book for general readers, after Hold Me Tight.
- It argues romantic love is an attachment bond, like the bond between mother and child.
- Love is not random but an ordered recipe for survival, and it can be understood and repaired.
- The book covers the neurochemistry of love, attachment and sex, and couples in therapy.
- Each chapter ends with exercises to do alone or with a partner.
Why it matters
- For readers who liked Hold Me Tight and want the research behind it.
- Reviewers found the science more convincing than the case dialogue.
Key facts
- Author
- Sue Johnson1
- Published
- 31 December 2013 (on sale)1
- Publisher
- Little, Brown2
- Pages
- 3521
- ISBN
- 978-0-316-13376-02
- Audience
- General readers and couples3
What it argues
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Love makes sense3
Clinical studies, experiments and therapy show love is understandable and repairable.
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An attachment bond1
Romantic love is an attachment bond like that between mother and child; humans are meant to mate for life.
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Bowlby's lineage3
Johnson credits her approach to John Bowlby's theories of infant attachment.
How it is organized
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Part one: the science3
Chapters on the brain, including oxytocin, and on the body, linking attachment and sexuality.
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Part two: therapy in action3
Cases of distressed couples learning to recognize attachment issues and repair the bond.
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Part three: love today3
A love story with a happy ending, then love in the 21st century.
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Three styles2
Partners are sorted as secure, anxious or avoidant, with hope that insecure partners can become stable.
Criticism and limits
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Thin in places2
Publishers Weekly called it admirable but at times thin, rarely applying its data to common couple problems.
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Stilted dialogue2
The same review found the patient dialogue too stilted to pass for real conversation.
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A promotional edge3
Kirkus read it as a self-help book that also promotes Emotionally Focused Therapy, while calling it readable.
Read next
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The practical conversations this book explains.
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The theory underneath.
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Johnson's later clinical book on the same science.
Connections
Links
Sources
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